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Monday 5 August 2013

Malala’s Story for Colonial Political Interests Exploited by Western Governments

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 The shooting of the fifteen year old Pakistani girl last October, Malala Yusufzai shocked and horrified many across the world – Muslim and non-Muslim. The dominant narrative that has been promoted by the mainstream media, human rights organisations, and Western governments and politicians is that the attempted assassination of this young girl by ‘Islamists’ in Pakistan was due to their opposition of her women’s rights activism and advocacy of education for girls in the country. 

 Following the shooting, many institutions and personalities rallied to her cause, praising her for bringing women’s education to global attention, including former British Prime Minister and UN Special Envoy for Global Education, Gordon Brown, UN General Secretary Ban Ki-Moon, and former US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton. On the 12th of July, Malala was invited to address a gathering of youth at the UN headquarters in New York where she advocated the need for free compulsory education for every child.

The cause of improving the educational rights of girls in Pakistan and globally is a noble one. However, far from noble are the shameless attempts by Western governments, institutions and politicians to exploit this young girl, her struggle, and the horrific attack against her for their own political goal of intensifying the propagation of Western secular, liberal values to women and girls in the Muslim world through education, and to weaken their Islamic identity and values. 

The cynical nature of their support of Malala and lack of true concern for the educational rights of Muslim women is demonstrated by their hypocritical stance and silence towards hijab and niqab bans in secular states such as France, Belgium, Turkey, and Uzbekistan that have deprived Muslim girls and women of a good schooling simply for abiding by their Islamic dress. The question should surely be asked – where were the strong voices of opposition of such secular states and politicians to the European Court of Human Rights’ Judgements that ruled against the right of Muslim women in France and Turkey to seek a good education while also adhering to their Islamic beliefs?

Malala’s story has also been used to further fuel and re-enforce the age-old myth that Islam and Islamic rule oppresses women and deprives them of their rights and that they are in need of Western-style liberation. It is a narrative that has been employed historically and over decades, continuing into modern times to maintain Western secular hegemony over the region by fighting the resurgence of Islam internationally in order to prevent the establishment of an Islamic system in the Muslim world that would threaten Western political and economic interests. 

However, it is not Islam but Western colonial foreign policy that has stripped women and girls in Pakistan and many other Muslim countries of a valuable education. The ‘War on Terror’ and occupation of Afghanistan has created a constant climate of insecurity and instability in Pakistan, Afghanistan and the region, marked with frequent drone attacks and bombs that have killed thousands over the years, including countless women, girls, and children. 

A UN Committee on the Rights of Children report stated that hundreds of children are reported to have died, “as a result of attacks and air strikes by the US military forces in Afghanistan” between 2008 and 2012, due to the use of “indiscriminate force”. Where are the rights of these children? Clearly their deaths are acceptable collateral damage to such colonial governments for the sake of securing their interests in the region. Such occupation, war and instability has also generated a lawless environment riddled with crime, abductions, and rape. All this has lead to many parents preventing their daughters from travelling far from their homes, including to school. 

Furthermore, how can states plagued with instability, destruction, and insecurity ever provide a good quality of education to their citizens? After more than 10 years of occupation, almost 9 out of 10 women in Afghanistan remain illiterate. Hence, it is the destructive Western colonial foreign policy that has not only robbed girls of an education, but robbed them of their lives and dignity, and stands as one of the main obstacles to their effective schooling.

Coupled with this, secular Western-backed regimes in the Muslim lands have allowed the influx of liberal culture into their states through their entertainment and advertising industries as well as through implementing a secular education system. This culture that sanctifies sexual freedom; sexualizes, objectifies and degrades women; and encourages men to treat women according to their desires has contributed to the high levels of sexual harassment, bullying and rape in the schools and streets of countries such as Pakistan, Bangladesh, and Egypt. This has caused many girls and women to feel reluctant to venture outside of their homes to seek an education. 

In addition, the flawed Western capitalist system has destroyed the economy of countries in the Muslim world, burdening them with huge debts due to heavy interest based loans and failed economic policies, such that more is spent on debt-repayments than education, healthcare, infrastructure and other public services. The result is insufficient and crumbling schools, poor numbers and training of teachers, and lack of necessary books and equipment. Furthermore, the impoverishment of the people through capitalist policies imposed upon the Muslim lands by Western states and their institutions such as the IMF as well as the lack of free schooling has caused many parents to reluctantly prioritise education for their sons over their daughters. Not surprising therefore that more than 60% of women in Pakistan and around 50% of women in Bangladesh and Egypt are illiterate.

It is therefore Western foreign policy and the capitalist, secular system that has been imposed upon our Muslim lands which has proven to be the greatest obstacle to providing good quality education to women and girls in the Muslim world.

Islam is clear about female education. It not only views the seeking of knowledge regarding Islam and its solutions to life’s affairs as an obligation upon women, as according to the hadith of the Prophet(saw), “Seeking Knowledge is obligatory upon ALL Muslims” but also directs the Muslimah to study the world around her. Indeed, the wife of the Prophet(saw), Aisha(ra) was not only a great scholar of Islam but a great scholar of medicine, poetry, and general knowledge. Islam also obliges the Muslim Ummah to be a leading nation in the world, encouraging men and women to contribute to the betterment of society and to excel in various spheres of life, including in academia, science, medicine, technology, and industry.

However, all these educational obligations and rights of women can only be secured by a system that truly values the beliefs of Islam and its emphasis on the importance of female learning. That system is the Khilafah state whose constitution is based purely upon the Qur’an and Sunnah. Hence, in accordance to Islam, the Khilafah is obliged to invest heavily in education and provide free primary and secondary education to girls and boys alike and as far as possible fund higher studies. It assures specialized female schools abiding by the Islamic regulation of segregation of the genders, managed by well-trained, well-paid and qualified female teachers. And it encourages and facilitates women to specialize in various fields to become for example scholars of Islam, doctors, scientists, mathematicians, architects, judges, lecturers, engineers, or IT specialists. 

All this is funded by a sound Islamic economic system that embodies the tools to generate a stable economy and economic prosperity, implemented by the Islamic ruling system that prioritises education and views it as a basic right of every citizen. It will strive through its education, media, and judicial systems to eradicate any cultural attitudes in its society that prevent women from having access to education. Finally, the Islamic social system and other Shariah laws will ensure that the high status of women is always maintained, that they are never devalued, that men treat them with respect and not according to their desires, and that harsh punishments are issued for any violation of their dignity, ensuring a safe environment within which girls can travel to school and pursue their studies. It is all this that will lead to the eradication of female illiteracy and to women’s educational aspirations being fulfilled.

It was under this system of the Khilafah that women’s education flourished historically creating brilliant female inventors such as Marium al-Istirlabi who pioneered the development of the astrolabe in the 10th century for calculating the position of the sun and stars; excellent female engineers such as Fatima Al-Fiqri who constructed the first university in the world in Qarawayyin, Morrocco; and thousands upon thousands of female scholars as detailed in the 40 volume book by the scholar Mohamed Akram an-Nadwi which provided biographies of 8000 female scholars who existed during the time of the Islamic civilization. Under this true Islamic system, the prestigious Al-Azhar university in Cairo gave access to women as students and as lecturers – a right that women in the West only acquired within their universities centuries after. Indeed, the proportion of female lecturers in many classical Islamic colleges was higher than in many Western universities today. All this was a result of Muslims making Islam the central and only motivating factor for their development. The Khilafah was therefore a state that truly pioneered the world in female education and Insha Allah will again produce a first-class education system for women and girls again upon its establishment!

Dear brothers and sisters, the script of the Malala story is being written by Western colonial governments, not to improve the rights of women but to continue their colonial intervention and control of the Muslim world. The education they offer for the region is not sincere but aimed at further spreading their secular, liberal values that has corrupted our youth; and it must be strongly rejected. It is through returning to our Islamic roots and laws through establishing the Khilafah that alone holds the key to fulfilling the educational aspirations of women and ensuring that all their God-given rights are secured. Allah(swt) says, “They wish to blow out the Light of Allah (i.e.this deen of Islam, the Qur’an, and the Prophet(saw) with their mouths). But Allah will bring His Light to perfection even though the disbelievers hate it.” [TMQ As-Saff: 8] (Ends)

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Monday 22 July 2013

Street Dawwa in UK Rochdale

During this blessed month of Ramadan, sisters at the Dawah stall in Rochdale took the opportunity to discuss with the community the significance that the month holds for Muslim community. Alongside maximising our efforts in the obligations commanded by Allah the believer increases their sunnah actions in the hope of attaining the immense rewards unrivalled by no other time or period throughout the year which Allah SWT has prepared for us.

Sisters spoke of the many challenges facing the Muslims this Ramadhan, nationally and globally, from the recent Woolwich incident, the rise in Islamophobia to the crisis in Syria, the dire situation of Muslims in Burma, Palestine, etc. As Muslims continue to be tested and where holding on to our values such as obedience is to Allah, the concept of brotherhood, the desire to live by the Quran and Sunnah, or the establishment of the khilafah, is like holding onto hot ember, sisters were reminded that although a difficult time for Muslims, the believer is encouraged to strive hard to establish the Deen of Allah in return for the immense rewards and that we ask Allah to strengthen us to carry His Call (swt). Muhammad (saw) said
 
“There will come a time called patience days. To hold onto Islam at that time will be like holding onto an ember of coal. Those people who work for the deen at those times will receive the reward of 50 men”

Sisters spoke of the how we should embrace the virtues of this month to strengthen our iman to motivate us throughout the rest of the year. By preserving our identities in the face of the attacks against Islam, remaining steadfast in our adherence of the commands of Allah and working to resume Islam as a way of life by inshallah establishing the Khilafah state in the Muslim land. (
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Wednesday 12 June 2013

Egyptian Girl, 13, Dies After Illegal Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)

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A teenage girl has died after undergoing an illegal female genital mutilation (FGM) procedure in a private clinic north east of Cairo

The 13-year-old, identified as Soher Ebrahim, died on Thursday evening in a village in the Daqahliya governorate, Gulf News reports. 

It adds her family have filed an official complaint, accusing the doctor who performed the operation of causing her death. 

Female genital mutilation victim in Dqahlia Soher
Soher Ebrahim died on Thursday (picture courtesy of Egypt Independent)

Soher’s father Mohammad told the Egyptian daily newspaper Al Masry Al Youm his daughter had been one of four girls being circumcised at the clinic at the time. 

He said the family had been informed Soher died of an anaesthesia overdose, though this has not been confirmed. 

He added: “If I had known the operation was going to kill her, I would never have [allowed] her to have it. The same doctor conducted a similar operation on her elder sister two years ago and villagers use this doctor because he has a remedy for everything at low prices." 

Soher’s uncle told the newspaper the doctor in question had offered her family 20,000 Egyptian pounds (around GBP1,850) if they did not file a complaint against him. 

Al Arabiya reports the police have ordered an autopsy and have “summoned” the doctor to determine the cause of the girl’s death. 

It cites a health inspector report as attributing the cause of death to “a sharp drop in blood pressure resulting from shock trauma.”
The procedure of FGM was criminalised by the Egyptian parliament in June 2008, with those found guilty liable for fines and prison sentences of up to two years. 

According to Egypt Independent, recent evidence suggests that younger generations are challenging the practice.

It quotes a 2008 Demographic and Health Survey of Egypt, which recorded that 91.1 percent of women aged 15-49 years underwent FGM, but only around 74 percent of girls aged 15-17 years, a percentage that is expected to drop to 45 percent over the next 10 years.

Compared to results from the 1995 survey, which recorded 96 percent of women aged 15-30 years having experienced FGM, "this is positive - if patient - progress". 

The World Health Organisation defines FGM as including procedures that intentionally alter or cause injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.

The procedure has no health benefits and can cause severe bleeding and difficulty urinating. Subsequent cysts, infections, infertility and complications in childbirth can lead to an increased risk of newborn deaths.
About 140 million girls and women worldwide are currently living with the consequences of FGM.

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Liberation of women talk - 'Revival of Sisterhood'

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Sunday 9 June 2013

அக்கினிக் குஞ்சுகளாய் புறப்படும் நாளைய ஆயிஷாக்களுக்கு…


01.உங்கள் எதிர்காலத்தை இறைவனின் துணை கொண்டு நீங்கள் தான் செதுக்கப்போகிறீர்கள்,, சிந்தியுங்கள், உங்களுடைய இன்றைய ஒவ்வொரு அசைவும்,பணியும் அந்த நாளைக்கான முதலீடுகளே.இன்று விதைப்பதை விட அறுவடை வித்தியாசமாகி விடாது,எனவே எதை விதைப்பது என்பதில் கரிசனையோடிருங்கள்.

02.என்னை ஊக்குவிக்க எவருமில்லை என்ற கண்ணீர்த்துளிகளை விட்டொழியுங்கள்.ஏணியில் ஏறும் போது காலை இழுத்து விடும் உலகம் இது.உங்களை தோள் தட்டி உற்சாகப்படுத்தும் துணை வேறு யாருமல்ல நீங்களே தான்; உங்களை நீங்களே ஊக்குவித்துக் கொள்ளுங்கள்.

03.அறிவு சுடர்விடும் உள்ளத்தில் அடக்கம் நிச்சயம் ஆட்சி பீடத்தில் இருக்கும்.உங்கள் அறிவு நீங்கள் இன்னும் எவ்வளவு அறிய வேண்டியிருக்கிறது என்பதை காட்டித்தரும் கலங்கரை விளக்கம்.நான் இவ்வளவு தெரிந்து வைத்திருக்கிறேன் என்ற மமதை அழிவுக்கு இட்டுச் செல்லும்.

04.தேடலும் வாசிப்பும் ஆழ் சிந்தனைக்கும் அறிவு முதிர்ச்சிக்கும் அத்தியாவசமானவை.செய்திகளையும் தகவல்களையும் நாம் தேடியறியும் காலம் போய் அவை எம்மைத்தேடி வருமொரு யுகம் இது.நம் பெண்களில் பலர் இன்னும் தேடலைத்தொலைத்தவர்களாக வாசிப்பார்வம் அழிந்தவர்களாக இருப்பது கவலைக்குரியது.எதையும் கேட்டவுடன் அதை நம்பி விடாமல் தேடி வாசித்து உண்மையை அறிந்து கொள்ளும் ஆளுமை வளரட்டும்.

05.உங்கள் பேச்சு உங்கள் ஆழம் சொல்லும்.நீங்கள் பேசும் தொனி மற்றும் பேசு பொருள் பற்றி கவனமாயிருங்கள்.இடம்,சந்தர்ப்பம் சூழலுக்குத் தகுந்தவாறு பேசுங்கள், மொழியின் முதல் நோக்கம் தெளிவான முறையில் கருத்துக்களைப் பரிமாறுவதாகும்.

06.உங்கள் பெற்றோர்கள் மற்றும் முதிர்ந்தவர்கள் இன்னொரு காலப்பரிமாணத்தை சேர்ந்தவர்கள்;அவர்களுக்கு கிடைத்தை சில வாய்ப்புக்கள் எமக்குக் கிடைக்கவில்லை; எம் காலம் சார்ந்த சில முன்னேற்றங்களில் அவர்கள் பங்காளார்களாய் இல்லை.அவர்களின் அனுபவத்திற்கு செவிகளையும் இதயங்களையும் கொடுக்க மறவாதீர்கள்.அவர்களை கண்ணியப்படுத்துங்கள்.


07.விளையும் பருவத்திலேயே ஒரு துறையைத் தேர்ந்தெடுங்கள்; அந்தத்துறை சார்ந்து நிபுணத்துவம் பெறுவதற்கான வாய்ப்பு வசதிகளை ஏற்படுத்திக் கொள்ளுங்கள்.ஒருவர் ஒன்றுக்கு மேற்பட்ட துறைகளில் பாண்டித்தியம் பெற முடியாதா என்ற கேள்விக்கு விடை முடியும் என்பதே. எனினும் ஒரு துறையில் குறிப்பிட்டளவு உங்களைச் செதுக்கிய பின்னரே இன்னொரு துறையில் முயற்சிப்பது உங்களை வெற்றியாளர் ஆக்கும்.


08.உங்கள் குடும்பங்கள் நீங்கள் அமைதி பெறும் பூங்காக்கள்.எந்த வானில் சிறகடித்துப் பறந்தாலும் குடும்பத்தில் உங்கள் பாத்திரத்தை மறந்து விடாதீர்கள்.அன்புள்ளம் கொண்ட சகோதரியாய், நிறைவானதோர் துணைவியாய்,பொறுப்புள்ளதோர் அன்னையாய் உங்கள் பணிகளை திருப்தியோடும் மகிழ்வோடும் நிறைவேற்றுங்கள்;உங்கள் உள்ளத்திற்கு இவை ஆறுதல் அளிக்கும்.


09. சுய அடையாளங்களை அடகு வைத்து விட்டு பிற அடையாளங்களுக்காய் ஏங்கும் உலகமிது.உங்கள் சுயத்தை தொலைத்து விடாதீர்கள்.நீங்கள் எந்த விடயத்தை செய்வதாக இருந்தாலும் சரி ஹிஜாப் அணிவதாக இருந்தாலும் கூட உங்களுக்கென்றொரு முறையை உருவாக்கிக் கொள்ளுங்கள்.எல்லோரும் செய்கிறார்கள் என்பதனால் மட்டும் ஒரு விடயத்தை கண்மூடித்தனமாகப் பின்பற்றாதீர்கள்.


10.உங்கள் தரத்தை கூட்டிக் கொள்ளுங்கள். விலையுயர்ந்த ஆடைகள், நகைகள் மற்றும் உங்களை தூக்கிக் காட்டும் ஒப்பனை சாதனங்களால் உங்கள் தரத்தை ஒரு போதும் உயர்த்தி விட முடியாது.தெளிவான சிந்தனை, ஆழமான பேச்சு மற்றும் வினைத்திறன் கொண்ட வேலைகள் உங்கள் தரத்தை அதிகரிக்கும்.மலினமான நாவல்கள்,தொலைக்காட்சி சீரியல்களுக்கு மேலால் நாம் இன்னும் வளர வேண்டியிருக்கிறது.

11.இறைவனும் நெருக்கமான தொடர்பு வையுங்கள்.உங்கள் சொந்த மனதின் சொல்லாத கவலைகள், சிக்கல்கள்,நெருடல்கள் அனைத்தையும் இறைவன் முன் சமர்ப்பியுங்கள்.உங்கள் உள்ளத்தை தன் விரல்களுக்கிடையில் வைத்திருப்பவன் அவனே. (சமீலா யூசுப் அலி, பீனிக்ஸ் இதழ் 2013,




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Sunday 2 June 2013

Pre News Report of Muktamar Khilafah 2013


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Published on Jun 1, 2013
On the 28th Rajab 1342 Hijriah or 3 March 1924, the Khilafah was replaced by the democratic secular capitalist system after its glory for 13 centuries. The plight and great suffering of the Muslim Ummah including Muslim women had started.

None of the sweet promises from the democratic secular capitalist system proved to dignify women's honor. Instead, Muslim women and children have become the victims of the implementation of its values and laws, suffering from poverty, exploitation, violence, family breakdown and misguidance of the youth. Many of the Islamic political, economic, educational, and legal rights that had been afforded to them for centuries under the Islamic rule of the Khilafah were cruelly stripped from them under secular and other man-made systems of governance.

Today, the desire of Muslim women in the far eastern for real change and improvement to their lives and society through the establishment of Islamic rule under the Khilafah is mirrored by the overwhelming desire for Islamic governance amongst the Muslim Ummah across the world. A new Pew Research Center survey of Muslims around the globe in 2012 finds that they are deeply committed to their faith and want its teachings to shape not only their personal lives but also their societies and politics.

Regarding the desire for the reestablishment of sharia and the Khilafah, HT Indonesia is holding the largest event ever in support of this goal; Muktamar Khilafah 2013 entitled: "A Magnitude Change of the World towards the Khilafah".

Do not miss this momentous event, join us on the 2nd of June 2013 at Gelora Bung Karno, Jakarta-Indonesia at 8 am -- 12.30 pm (Indonesia time) or watch the event live from 6.15 am -- 13.00 pm (Indonesia time) at HT.


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Monday 20 May 2013

I wish to marry a Pious husband

Story of beautiful woman who wish to marry pious husband 
There was this beautiful woman, who wanted to get married, but she wanted a very pious husband, so she said that she’ll marry the man who recites the whole Quran every single day, fasts for the whole year and stays awake and worships Allah all throughout the night.

She was a very beautiful woman, and a lot of suitors wanted to marry her, but they knew they couldn’t fulfil the conditions she set. Until this one man stepped forward and said he could fulfil them. So the Imam got both of them married.

After the first night of the marriage, the wife sees that the husband doesn’t recite the whole of the Quran, nor does he fast, nor does he stay awake in the worship of Allah, she decided to let it roll on for a few weeks to see if there were any changes, there weren’t, so she filed a complaint and asked for a divorce.

They are both taken in front of the judge, and the judge asked, ‘What were the conditions of the marriage?’ the man replied ‘They were for me to recite the whole Quran daily, keep fast for the whole year and to worship Allah all throughout the night.’

The Judge asked, ‘ did you fulfil them? The man calmly answered, ‘…yes.’

The judge answers, ‘you lie, your wife has said that you don’t, that’s why she’s asking for a divorce’.
But the man insisted that he had fulfilled the conditions, so the judge asked, ‘did you recite the full Quran everyday?’ The man answered yes. The Judge, baffled asked, ‘how? How can you do that?’ The man coolly answered, ‘I recite Surah Ikhlas three times a day and according to Prophet Muhammad (saw), reciting Surah Ikhlas three times is equivalent to reciting the whole Quran.’ The Judge was intrigued, so he asked, ‘how did you fast the whole year?’ The man answered, ‘ I fasted for the whole month of Ramadan, then kept another six fasts in the month of Shawwal, according to Prophet Muhammad (saw), keeping all of the fast of Ramadan then keeping six fasts in the month of Shawwal, is as if you have fasted for the whole year.’

The Judge remained silent, he couldn’t give a reply saying the man was wrong, so finally he asked, ‘ how did you stay awake all night and worship Allah, when your wife saw you sleeping?’ The Judge thought the man wouldn’t be able to answer this one, but the man, cool as a cucumber answered, ‘I prayed Salatul Isha with jamaat, then the next day prayed Salatul Fajr with jamaat, according to Prophet Muhammad (saw), the one who prays Salatul Isha and Salatul Fajr with jamaat, it is as if he had stayed up all night worshipping Allah.’

The Judge sat there looking at the man; the final verdict was about to be released…

He said to the man and his wife, ‘…go, just go, there is nothing wrong with this marriage’…(Via FB; Sisters)

Why I Want To Get Married?


-Because I want my eyes to see someone special, someone halal, knowing that he/she is my gift from Allah.

-Because I want someone who loves Allah and loves me because he/she loves Allah.

-Because I want somebody to share my happiness and praise Allah with me,someone to cry my tears with me and make du’a with me and someone to love and love Allah with me.

-Because I want to have children of my own to love and care and share with a gift from Allah.

-Because I want to share Allah’s beautiful creations and praise His name with someone who Allah has fated to be with me since I was born.

-Because verily, with a halal partner, my life and everything I do with my husband will be halal in the eyes of Allah completing half my deen.

-Because I am a gift from Allah to someone, and I want to let him feel Allah’s love through me.(via FB Sisters)

20 tips to make your marriage successful



01. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
02. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always
03. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
04. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
05. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
06. Do not compare each other even for tiny things.
07. Surprise your spouse with something new.
08. Spent time as much as you can.
09. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don't argue. Simply say ‘Sorry’ whether it’s your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say ‘I love you’ to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking. 
20. Eat together, be together and pray together...!!!

Via FB; Sisters

Sunday 19 May 2013

Poem; When you feel all alone in this world

When you feel all alone in this world
And there’s nobody to count your tears
Just remember, no matter where you are
Allah knows

When you carrying a monster load
And you wonder how far you can go
With every step on that road that you take
Allah knows

 
No matter what, inside or out
There’s one thing of which there’s no doubt
Allah knows

And whatever lies in the heavens and the earth
Every star in this whole universe
Allah knows

When you find that special someone
Feel your whole life has barely begun
You can walk on the moon, shout it to everyone
Allah knows

When you gaze with love in your eyes
Catch a glimpse of paradise
And you see your child take the first breath of life
Allah knows

When you lose someone close to your heart
See your whole world fall apart
And you try to go on but it seems so hard
Allah knows

You see we all have a path to choose
Through the valleys and hills we go
With the ups and the downs, never fret never frown
Allah knows

Every grain of sand,
In every desert land, He knows.
Every shade of palm,
Every closed hand, He knows.
Every sparkling tear,
On every eyelash, He knows.
Every thought I have,
And every word I share, He knows.
Allah knows.
Via FB; Sister

10 Wonderful reasons to be grateful to your mother


01. Your mother carried you for 9 months bearing pain upon pain.

02. During this time, she could not eat becuase of you! She could not sleep because of you!


03. When you were a baby, she spent every minute of her life looking after you!
 

04. She only slept when you slept! She only ate after you had eaten!
 

05. She was patient and loved you even when you cried all night and when you cried all day !
 

06. She taught you how to walk, how to speak, how to eat, she taught you how to live!
 

07. When you fall ill, she looks after you!
 

08. She always cooks and prepared food for you !
 

09. She buys you whatever you ask for !
 

10. She loves you unconditionally !

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Monday 13 May 2013

பெண்கள் பேண வேண்டிய நாணம்!!!!

மனித வாழ்வில் ஒழுக்கம் உயிரை விட உயர்வாக மதிக்கத் தக்கதாகும் ஒழுக்க நெறி இல்லையேல் மனிதனுக்கும் மிருகத்திற்குமிடையில் வேறுபாடு இல்லாமல் போய் விடும். மற்ற படைப்புகளிடமில்லாத சிறப்பம்சம் ஒன்று மனிதனிடம் உண்டென்றால் அது ஒழுக்க நெறியுடன் கூடிய வாழ்வேயாகும்.

இறைவனின் படைப்பான ஆண், பெண் இரு பாலரிடத்திலும் பல விதமான வேறுபாடுகள் காணப்படுகின்றன. அவற்றில் வெட்கத்தையும் நாணத்தையும் அல்லாஹ் பெண்களிடத்தில் அதிகம் வழங்கியுள்ளான். ஆனால் இன்று நாகரீகம் என்ற பெயரில் வெட்கம், நாணம் அனைத்தையும் மறந்து அநாகரீகமான செயல்களில் பெண்கள் ஈடுபடத் துவங்கி விட்டனர்.

மேலை நாடுகளில் விடை பெற்று விட்ட இந்த வெட்க உணர்வு தற்போது கீழை நாடுகளிலும் விடைபெறத் துவங்கி விட்டது. அதன் அதிவேக வளர்ச்சி இஸ்லாமியப் பெண்களையும் தொட்டுவிட்டது. அரைகுறை ஆடை அணிவது அந்நிய ஆண்களோடு ஊர் சுற்றுவது கவர்ச்சிகரமான அலங்காரங்களை செய்து கொண்டு வீதிகளில் உலா வருவது என்று பல அநாகரீகச் செயல்கள் இஸ்லாமிய பெண்களிடம் ஒட்டிக் கொண்டு விட்டது.

வெட்கம் ஈமானில் உள்ளதாகும் என்று நபி(ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறியுள்ளார்கள். ஈமான் உள்ளவரிடம் வெட்கம் இருக்க வேண்டும் என நபி(ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறியிருக்கிறார்கள்.

ஆனால் வெட்கம் கொஞ்சம் கூட இல்லாமல் வெட்கம் கெட்ட செயலில் மூழ்கியிருக்கிறார்கள் இன்றைய இஸ்லாமியப் பெண்களும். அரை குறை ஆடைகள் அணியும் பெண்களுக்கும் உள்ளாடைகளின் நிறம் தெரியுமளவிற்குச் சேலைகள் அணியும் பெண்களுக்கும் வெட்கம் என்பது இல்லையா? அல்லது ஈமானே உள்ளத்தை விட்டு வெளியேறி விட்டதா?

கணவனுக்கு மட்டும் காட்ட வேண்டிய அலங்காரத்தை உலகமறியக் காட்டுவது தான் நாகரீகமா? நங்கையர்களின் நாட்டம் தான் என்ன?

“கன்னிப் பெண்ணும் விதவைப் பெண்ணும் அனுமதி பெறப்படாமல் திருமணம் முடிக்கப்பட மாட்டாள்” என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறிய போது, “கன்னிப் பெண்ணின் அனுமதி எப்படி? (அவள் வெட்கப் படுவாளே)” என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்களிடம் நபித்தோழர்கள் கேட்டனர். அதற்கு நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள், “அவள் மவுனமாக இருப்பதே அனுமதி” என்று கூறினார்கள் அறிவிப்பாளர்: ஆயிஷா (ரலி), நூல்: புகாரி 5136

அனுமதிக்கப்பட்ட ஒன்றிற்குக் கூட ஆம்’ என்று பதில் சொல்ல வெட்கப்பட்ட தீன்குலப் பெண்களின் நாணம் எங்கே? இந்தப் பெண்கள் எங்கே?

நல்ல ஆண்களைக் கூட கெடுக்கும் வண்ணம் அரைகுறை ஆடைகளை அணிந்து கொண்டும் நறுமணப் பொருட்களை பூசிக் கொண்டும் செல்வதால் கெட்டுப் போவது பெண் மட்டுமா? நல்ல ஆண்களும் கூடத் தானே? வெட்கமில்லாமல் அந்தரங்கப் பகுதிகளை வெளிப்படுத்தும் இப்பெண்கள் அண்ணலாரின் பொன் மொழிக்குச் செவி சாய்ப்பார்களா? நறுமணம் பூசி, தன் கணவனை மயக்கச் செய்யவே ஒரு பெண்ணுக்கு அனுமதியுண்டு.

அதை விடுத்து தெருத் தெருவாக வீட்டில் உள்ளவர்களை வெளியில் வரவழைக்கும் வண்ணம் நறுமணம் பூசிச் செல்வது விபச்சாரியின் செயலுக்குச் சமமில்லையா? ஊரிலுள்ளவர்கள் எல்லாம் நம்மைப் பார்க்கின்றார்கள் என்ற வெட்க உணர்வும் இல்லையா?

“எப்பெண்மணி நறுமணத்தை பூசிக் கொள்கிறாளோ அப்பெண் நம்மோடு இஷா தொழுகையில் கலந்து கொள்ள வேண்டாம்” என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறினார்கள் அறிவிப்பாளர்: அபூஹுரைரா (ரலி), நூல்: முஸ்லிம் 760

கடமையான தொழுகையில் கூட நறுமணம் பூசிக் கொண்டு பெண்கள் கலந்து கொள்ளக் கூடாது என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறியதற்குக் காரணம், அதனால் மற்ற ஆண்களின் பார்வை அங்கு செல்லும் என்பதை விட வேறு என்னவாக இருக்கும்? வயதுக் கோளாறின் காரணமாக சில ஆண்களின் கவர்ச்சிப் பேச்சிற்கு அடிமைப்பட்டு, தனிமையில் சந்திப்பது, பின்னர் அவனால் ஏமாற்றப்பட்டு தற்கொலை அல்லது தினமும் வேதனை என்ற நிலைக்குப் போகக் காரணம் என்ன? வெட்கமில்லாமல் அந்நியரோடு ஊர் சுற்றியது தானே!

“எந்தவொரு ஆணும் (அந்நியப்) பெண்ணோடு தனித்திருக்க வேண்டாம். ஏனெனில் மூன்றாவதாக ஷைத்தான் இருக்கிறான்” என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறினார்கள். (நூல்: அஹ்மத் 109)

“ஷைத்தான் மனிதனின் இரத்த நாளங்களில் ஓடுகிறான்” என்று நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறினார்கள்.

அறிவிப்பாளர்: ஸஃபிய்யா (ரலி), நூல்: புகாரி 3281

எவ்வளவு நல்லவர்களாக இருந்தாலும் ஆணும் பெண்ணும் தனித்திருந்தால் ஷைத்தான் தன் வேலையைக் காட்டுகிறான். இதை நிதர்சனமாக நாம் பார்த்து கொண்டு தான் இருக்கிறோம் தமது பார்வைகளைத் தாழ்த்திக் கொள்ளுமாறும் தமது கற்புகளைப் பேணிக் கொள்ளுமாறும் நம்பிக்கை கொண்ட பெண்களுக்குக் கூறுவீராக! அவர்கள் தமது அலங்காரத்தில் வெளியே தெரிபவை தவிர மற்றவற்றை வெளிப்படுத்த வேண்டாம். தமது முக்காடுகளை மார்பின் மேல் போட்டுக் கொள்ளட்டும்.

(அல்குர்ஆன் 24:31)

நபியின் மனைவியரே! நீங்கள் பெண்களில் எவரையும் போன்றோர் அல்லர். நீங்கள் (இறைவனுக்கு) அஞ்சினால் குழைந்து பேசாதீர்கள்! எவனது உள்ளத்தில் நோய் உள்ளதோ அவன் சபலப்படுவான். அழகான கூற்றையே கூறுங்கள்.

உங்கள் வீடுகளிலேயே தங்குங்கள்! முந்தைய அறியாமைக் காலத்தில் வெளிப்படுத்தித் திரிந்தது போல் திரியாதீர்கள்! தொழுகையை நிலை நாட்டுங்கள்! ஸகாத்தைக் கொடுங்கள்! அல்லாஹ்வுக்கும், அவனது தூதருக்கும் கட்டுப்படுங்கள்! இவ்வீட்டினராகிய உங்களை விட்டு அசுத்தத்தை நீக்கவும், உங்களை முழுமையாகப் பரிசுத்தப் படுத்தவுமே அல்லாஹ் நாடுகிறான்.

உங்கள் வீடுகளில் கூறப்படும் அல்லாஹ்வின் வசனங்களையும், ஞானத்தையும் நினையுங்கள்! அல்லாஹ் நுணுக்கமானவனாகவும், நன்கறிந்தவனாகவும், இருக்கிறான்.

முஸ்லிமான ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், நம்பிக்கை கொண்ட ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், கட்டுப்பட்டு நடக்கும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், உண்மை பேசும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், பொறுமையை மேற்கொள்ளும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், அடக்கமாக நடக்கும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், தர்மம் செய்யும் ஆண்களும், பெண் களும், நோன்பு நோற்கும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், தமது கற்பைக் காத்துக் கொள்ளும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும், அல்லாஹ்வை அதிகம் நினைக்கும் ஆண்களும், பெண்களும் ஆகிய அவர்களுக்கு அல்லாஹ் மன்னிப்பையும், மகத்தான கூலியையும் தயாரித்துள்ளான்.

(அல்குர்ஆன் 33:32-35)

தீன்குலப் பெண்களாக நாம் வாழ வேண்டுமானால் நபி (ஸல்) அவர்களின் மனைவியரைப் போன்று கண்ணியம் மிக்க ஆடைகளை அணிந்த பெண்களாகவும் அவசியமில்லாமல் ஊர் சுற்றுவதைத் தவிர்த்து, தொழுகையை முறைப்படி உறுதியுடன் கடைப்பிடிப்பவர்களாகவும், ஜகாத் கொடுப்பவர்களாகவும் இருக்க வேண்டும். அல்லாஹ்வும் அவனது தூதரும் கட்டளையிட்டபடி நடக்க வேண்டும். “தீர்ப்பு நாளில் முஃமினின் தராசில் நன்னடத்தையை விடக் கனமானது எதுவும் இருக்காது” என நபி (ஸல்) அவர்கள் கூறினார்கள். அறிவிப்பவர்: அபூதர்தா (ரலி) நூல்: அஹ்மத் (26245), அபூதாவூத் (4166)

நன்மையும் தீமையும் நிறுக்கப்படும் போது நன்மையின் தட்டைத் தாழ்த்தும் பணியில் ஒழுக்கவியலின் பங்கு ஒப்பிட முடியாதது என்பதை இந்நபிமொழி உணர்த்துகின்றது. “மனிதர்களை அதிகமாக சொர்க்கத்தில் நுழைவிக்கக் கூடியது எது? என நபி (ஸல்) அவர்களிடம் வினவப்பட்ட போது, “இறையச்சமும் நன்னடத்தையுமே” என பதிலளித்தார்கள். “நரகில் மனிதர்களை எது அதிகம் நுழைவிக்கும்?” என கேட்கப்பட்ட போது, “வாயும் பாலுறுப்பும்” என பதிலளித்தார்கள்.

அறிவிப்பாளர்: அபூஹுரைரா (ரலி)
நூல்கள்: அஹ்மத் (7566), திர்மிதீ (1927), இப்னு மாஜா (4236)

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Mother in-law and the wife(s)

How can a wife win the pleasure of her mother in-law?

• By using kind words when talking to her
• By obeying her and dealing with her as if she is her own daughter
• By Giving gifts to her
• By treating her kindly, just as she would to her own mother,

She should have tolerance towards her mother in-law, especially during the first months of the marriage, until she wins her pleasure and therefore becomes one of those who are beloved to her mother in-law - and this would make the entire family love her as well.

The wife should fear Allaah, lest she becomes a cause for her husband to be undutiful to his parents.



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Sunday 17 March 2013

Me and the Mosque by Zarqa Nawaz

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NB; Watch carefully, this video gives some ideas,but not all correct. Finally sister, Zarqa Nawaz entering into the mosque and praying together with men. this is not in Islam and not even correct in moral grounds.   Women must have some place in mosque, but it is not necessary to be mixing with men. In any activity or place 'women mixing with men' is prohibited. And its not necessary for good women mixing with other men in any faith. This video has positives and negatives.

 


   
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Saturday 23 February 2013

Women from Wrong to Wrong system in Muslim world

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2/3; UnIslamic dress and unproductive Muslim women

3/3; She (Left) is woman and Muslim doctor. So other woman (right) can open the head in front of another women. There is no Islam and civilization here.
 
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Thursday 14 February 2013

Halal Products in Islam

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4/ How to Read Labels for Halal 


5/ How to Ask for Halal-Certified Products



6/ How to Read Food Labels for Nutritional Information


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Tuesday 22 January 2013

Delhi Rape Case & How Islam Dignifies Women

On the 16th of December 2012, Damini, a 23 year old Indian medical student fell victim to a brutal assault and gang raped by six men on a bus in the Indian capital Delhi. A fortnight after that she died from her injuries. Damini’s case sparked mass protests across India against the Indian police and government’s negligence and laidback attitude towards the protection of women from sexual violence.

Rape has taken the shape of almost a cultural ritual, an everyday occurrence and the fastest growing crime in India, the world’s largest democracy. Many sexual assaults go unreported due to large numbers of women having lost faith in the system to protect their dignity as a consequence of the scale of the problem, a culture of impunity afforded to offenders by police, cases that drag on for years through the courts, and abysmal conviction rates.

According to statistics, a woman is raped every 20 minutes in India, and 24,000 rape cases were reported last year alone. “Hindustan times” reported in a survey that 78% of women in Delhi had been sexually harassed in 2012 alone.[i]

Increasing number of people as a result of this incident called for the death penalty as a punishment for the rapists hoping that this would become a deterrent for future would-be rapists.  The government also rushed to ban buses with tinted windows.

But would these steps really bring an end to this heinous crime ? To understand this there is a need to assess the reason why such a heinous crime has taken the shape of an epidemic in the first place.
The root cause lies in the increasing embrace of the western way of life in India. The West offers individual freedom as the progressive basis of life. By individual freedom what’s meant is that an individual is completely free in how he or she lives his or her life.
As a result of this, natural aspects within man are taken and put into the public life such that it is propagated everywhere – the sexual relationship. It is true that people have a procreation instinct from which we get the feeling of wanting to have children, of motherhood of fatherhood and also an aspect which is sexual.
Sex is promoted everywhere from billboards, movies, music, adverts – everywhere. They have taken something which should be for the bedroom, for the private life and promoted it in the whole society.
The nature of instincts is that reality agitates them – so if the image and portrayal of sex is everywhere then it is bound to agitate the instincts of men and women – what will this lead to?
In August 2002 the Observer Newspaper in UK, the heart of the Western world published the findings of an Observer / ICM poll on sexual attitudes and behaviour of Britons. A total of 1,027 people aged 16 and above were questioned about their views of sex in the 21st Century. It found that more than half of Britons have had a 'one night stand' and that the average number of sexual partners in the UK stands at 10.
If we take a quick look at the West’s record we find that in their societies the top five problems in the social and marital life are:
  • Mistrust and Adultery - 70% of American wives commit adultery within 5 years of marriage.
  • Divorce - one in three end up in divorce.
  • Rape - 167 women are raped every day in the UK.
  • Wife battery - a battery incident occurs every 18 seconds in the America.
  • Child molestation and paedophilia - in Britain a quarter of a million people are known paedophiles!.
The situation in India is much similar, in a survey conducted by OutlookIndia magazine in 2011,
·         52.3 % respondents of the survey considered one-night stands as acceptable.
  • 80 % of respondents in Hyderabad considered casual sex as a great stress-buster
  • 53.8 % of Delhiites lost count of the number of times they paid for sex  
  • 23.8 % of Bangaloreans have had casual sex with someone of the same gender [ii]
These are the fruits of freedom and these should not be considered surprising but in fact are an inevitable occurrence since a solution proposed by man’s limited mind will never be able to address the intricacies of human life and its requirements.
Therefore, we need to refer to the Creator (subhanahu wa ta’aala), Who is All-Aware of His (subhanahu wa ta’aala) creation and how it is that humanity should regulate their lives.
The West views Women as sex objects. They value women by their looks – making women obsessed about looking the right way and how men perceive them.
And this problem is not limited to the west, rather has been exported wholesale to countries like India who is trying to catch up with the liberal west.

The Bollywood culture, along with other entertainment, advertising, and pornography industries sanctioned by India’s secular liberal democratic system have presented the woman as an object to play to the desires of men, sexualized society, encouraged individuals to pursue their selfish carnal desires, and promoted extra-marital relationships, nurturing a culture of promiscuity and cheapening the relationships between men and women. All this has desensitized the disgust that should be felt towards the violation of women’s dignity in the minds of many men.

So the root problem is not just that India does not have sufficiently strong punishments or that there are too many buses with tinted windows, but it is a more deep rooted problem of a society
-          that has lost its moral compass,
-          that has encouraged sexualisation of woman in films and advertising,
-          that has encouraged free mixing as we saw on New Year’s eve and will see at Valentines
-          and instills concepts of freedom and the unrestricted satisfaction of needs and instincts.

The Islamic view towards woman

Islam does not believe in the ideas of freedom, liberation, or equality of the woman, for it does not leave the human being to decide how he or she should live her life according to her own desires or allow mankind to legislate their own laws for the society and create their own system from the ignorance, bias, greed, and limited understanding that they have of each other’s needs. The system comes completely from the Creator, covering all of life’s affairs: ruling, economic, judicial, education and the social system dealing with the relationship and duties of men and women within the society. As a verse in the Holy Qur’an states in a chapter entitled Ahzab,

)وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤْمِنٍ وَلَا مُؤْمِنَةٍ إِذَا قَضَى اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَمْرًا أَنْ يَكُونَ لَهُمُ الْخِيَرَةُ مِنْ أَمْرِهِمْ وَمَنْ يَعْصِ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ فَقَدْ ضَلَّ ضَلَالًا مُبِينًا(
“It is not fitting for a believer, man or woman, when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger, to have any option about their decision. If anyone disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong path”.                                                                                             [TMQ Ahzab:36]

Within Islam, the Muslim woman has contentment in her life, for the only expectations she has to live up to are those of the Creator and not the continually changing or unrealistic expectations of her husband, family, community or society. She is not expected to be the superwoman who has a successful busy career but at the same time has to fulfill the duties of being a wife and mother perfectly.

With regards to the honour, respect, and security that a woman deserves, Islam establishes this in two ways. Firstly, Islam rejects liberal freedoms and rather promotes taqwa (God-consciousness) within society that nurtures a mentality of accountability in the manner by which men view and treat women. It prohibits the sexualisation of society as well as all forms of objectification and exploitation of women’s bodies, such that the relationship between the sexes is never cheapened or the woman devalued. It celebrates a comprehensive social system that regulates the relationship between men and women, and includes a modest dress code, the segregation of the genders, and prohibition of extramarital relationships – all of which directs the fulfillment of the sexual desires to marriage alone, protecting women and society.

Islam commands that the man views the woman as an honour to be protected at all times and as a trust that the Creator has placed in his hand, whether it is his mother, daughter, wife, or any woman in society. He understands that his treatment towards her can bring him either reward or punishment in the Hereafter. In a hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (saw) he said, “The world and all things in the world are precious but the most precious thing in the world is a virtuous woman”.

In his last sermon to the Muslims, he (saw) reminded them, “O People, it is true that you have certain rights, with regards to your women but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah’s trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers.”

Within a true Islamic Society, the correct Islamic concepts will affect the men within the society at large, who will view the woman as an honour regardless of whether she has a career or not. This can be seen in an example at the time when there was a true Islamic society. The leader or Khalifah at the time of this example was Umar bin Al-Khattab (ra). A situation arose where a Jew was found assassinated. Umar asked the people if they knew about the matter, whereupon a muslim called Bak’r in Shad’dakh appeared before him and said, “I have killed him”. Umar was astonished and asked him for the reason. The man explained that a Muslim brother had gone on Jihad and consigned his family members to him to look over in his absence. When he arrived at the house of the brother, he had found the Jew inside reciting poetry slandering the reputation of the brother’s wife by implying that he had spent the night with her in his absence. As a result, he killed him to protect the honour of the woman who had been placed under his protection. On hearing all the details, Umar exempted him from paying any compensation to the family of the Jew.

The second manner by which Islam protects the honour of the woman is by the presence of an Islamic State or Khilafah. The Khilafah is the ruling system of Islam that applies all of the commands of Islam that includes for example the prayer, the fasting, the zakat (obligatory charity), the economic laws, the social system that regulates the relationship of men and women within the society, and the punishment system of Islam. It is this true Islamic State that existed for over 1300 years but has been absent over our lands today for almost 80 years. This explains the increasing rape, domestic violence, shame, and humiliation that the woman faces presently within the Muslim world. It is only through the re-establishment of the Khilafah that will enable the propagation of the correct viewpoint and mentality to the individuals within the society through the education system and the media and have the authority to enforce the appropriate punishments upon those who dishonour the woman. (Islamic Revival)


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